Saturday, June 9, 2012

Help young people understand as a teenage crazy

As a teenage nature, means certain that everyone must face the problem. This includes physical, psychological and emotional changes young people experience. As the parents of the young people, to help them understand how it was to assure them that they will make it through.

Physical and other changes

Your child starts the growth of the Spurs and not in line with the Your child starts the sound of his voice hoarse. He began to sprout facial hair. He has an erection. To sit down with him to discuss these changes.

This little girl became the symmetry and bending. Changes of her breasts, breast development. She began to menstruate. To sit down and talk to her about these changes.

These physical changes will shift their self-awareness. They will have a great impact on their self-concept - how they see themselves, their own and others comparisons. And compare them. Their classmates are going through similar changes, they will react to these changes as well.

They are often decide how they see the rest of their lives through this transition.

Relations with their peers at school

Access to attract the interests of others, hanging out, dating, etc., is also a teenage challenges and the crazy part. As a parent, you must know who is your young people linked to, who affect them.

Let's face it. There will always be good children and bad, you just want to help young people learn how to make good decisions when it comes to friendship. Again, do not be afraid to sit down with your child. To explain to them why it is important to learn how to make the right choice when it comes to their peers in school and what not to do. Listen to them what to say to respect them. They will be more inclined to respect and listen to your return to say.

Relationship with parents

Young people to find them no matter what. They believe that their thoughts and feelings, it is important to their parents. Offers respect, understanding and love of the environment, you will strengthen the relationship with your teenagers. Understand them at a young age.

Cultivate relations with them, for you to find what they enjoy or their interests. This time together to talk about a normal part of interaction. Then when a crisis or difficult situation, your child will be more inclined you to. They will be comfortable talking to you. This is because you have laid a basis of trust.

The relationship between brothers and sisters at home

It is bad enough young people to compare themselves with others outside a friend or family, but they will feel with their brothers and sisters in the domestic competition. Fashion show, clothing, pay attention to how they treat you, will be closely monitored, and can be a source of conflict. Old boy or a girl, they always do whatever they like typical example can be a hotbed of jealousy and resentment.

Be careful how you handle your young people in order to minimize the same level of competition and conflict.

Responsibility

As the child grows up to you as a parent, you must adjust to each new stage. When the child reaches puberty, it is important that they learn the concept of responsibility. You may start to allocate a certain task, you young people, things like take out the trash or help clean up after dinner. When you do this is to ensure that they explain why. Do not simply say: "I want you to help me." But because we have certain things we need to do adults grow older, to explain to them.

For example, because their parents to explain to them the care of your house and take care of their responsibilities. Explained, which means to do something. You can not expect magic to do these things, but you need to take action to ensure that they receive.

Explained to them that they have certain responsibilities as a student, including class, the concern is what to teach, to do their homework. You just want to give them impressed and accept our own responsibility, is a part of life.

Expectations for their future

A conversation, you may have your young people for their own future, what are their ideas. According to their age and how close they are to graduation, they respond to the survey may be different. However, you are trying to do is do some determination of how they think.

One thing you have to determine whether there is any part of the unsafe, they fear for their future. In view of all the things that happened in the world today, it may be that your teen may have some doubts, and even correct the fear of how the matter.

You to ensure your young people, you will do your best to help them prepare for the future.

To do this, you want to do the best you can continue to provide the same loving care of and support to provide you with them when they were younger, more dependent on you.

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